It’s Amazing
how easily bonds are broken.
Be it over a boy, separation, or some petty fight, some friendship bonds break easily.
I never realized before, but I’m starting to now.
It’s almost as if this past week has shown me who my true friends are. The ones that are always there for me, who never make it sound like a chore to hang out.
And who my enemies are.
Those who turn anything and everything into a fight, and can’t admit that they are wrong.
Those who don’t make any effort to continue a friendship, and yet, get mad when they aren’t included.
Those who choose their boyfriends over friends that they’ve known for years before.
In the past few days, I’ve spent more time with friends who 1. I’ve known since high school, 2. I’ve known for a few years and 3. I’ve only known for 4 days.
In these past few days, I’ve had more fun with those people then I have had in a long time.
Today, I was raging at some drama that happened earlier.
The friend that I’ve known for a few years was involved, but ultimately decided that it was me she wanted to side with. (the drama is a long drawn out story that I will perhaps update at a later time.)
She and I were still pretty pissed off when we got to the friend that I’ve known since high school’s house. He and the other friend who I’ve only known for a few days cheered us up in a heartbeat. They made us forget that we were angry, and personally ( I can’t speak for my other friend) I felt a lot better. I forgot how angry I was at the person who pissed me off, and I was able to have one of the best nights ever.
I really value all of my friendships, but it’s people like these who make being friends with them SO easy, that it’s almost preferable to those friendships where you have to work hard in order to last.
So even though those people whom I mentioned don’t have a tumblr, I would like to thank those 3 for being the best friends I could have ever asked for. :)
